Carers' Stories stories

"Two of us" - Katie's story
Our supporter Katie tells the story of how her relationship with her sister was affected by her sibling's eating disorder

Carers Week 2023 - Sophie's story
In this poignant letter to herself, our supporter Sophie shares her story of caring for her child through their anorexia journey

The road to recovery

“There is no end goal – we just take each day as it comes”
A mother talks about her daughter’s transition from school to college with an eating disorder.

Thanks to Bolster, Holly has a new lease of life and is stepping outside of her comfort zone.

Top tips for supporting a loved one this Christmas
I understand how the hustle and bustle of Christmas bells and laughter can be so quickly swept away by the intrusion of food-related thoughts that spark from the voice of an eating disorder. I wanted to remind each of you that even though things appear rather dark right now, there is hope!

Witnessing my sister’s experience made an impression of its own
I reached out to Beat hoping to become a volunteer about six months ago. Before that, I hadn’t heard of the phrase ‘sibling carer’ and had never really thought of myself as being one.

My only aim in life is to see my sister be happy
Since I was 14, mental illness has been something I have had to learn to understand. My younger sister has had many problems, from self-harming and depression, to most recently, anorexia.

While all eating disorders and the people who suffer from them are completely different, what they often have in common is that they revolve around control.

A lot of the information out there is about caring for a child with an eating disorder, rather than an adult. Yet it’s so difficult when they’re an adult as you’re unable to intervene – you have to let them make their own mistakes and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Eating Disorders Recovery: 11 ways to support a friend
Dr Pooky Knightsmith Hesmondhalgh, a Child and Adolescent Mental Health Specialist shares a recent post from her own blog.

Mark's story
Looking back, I have come to realise that the role of carers with people suffering from eating disorders is paramount to their recovery.